Ok, I'm very wary about posting this on here but there's nobody else I want to turn to about it and I was hoping for some advice. Here goes:
I am 44 days sober (hooray!) and very happy and settled with it. Before I was sober our nightly routine would go something like this: kids to bed for 8, I'd drink wine until I was drunk, bed around 12 together.
The nightly routine for the last 44 nights (give or take a few nights): kids to bed at 8, a little TV, I head to bed around 10 - 10:30pm and read for a while, I awake at around 4am to find Husband is asleep on the couch downstairs!?
Sorry, I know this is tedious but I don't understand it? Did he prefer me when I smelled of booze and cigarettes? (44 days off smoking too) I know he's relieved the booze has stopped, so what is this shift in our relationship? Any advice would be greatly welcomed, thanks all
