pray
dear friend, pray for help,
God Loves u.
niether path will be perfect,
but you'll get Peace that guides you from God.
whichever choice gives you most Peace AFTER YOU'VE PRAYED,(and waited)
that would be the path 4 u.
no mortal can answer your Q, but God cares.
besides,the best move for ur kids would be giving them the Gift of
a Loving God also.
(that will stack the deck in your favor that neither kid will need to be addicts themselves later in life).
God proved His Love by sending Jesus 2 die our death penalty 4 hating God.
blessings from new york state.