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Florence I admitted it's a real source of resentment for me. I think it's partly because I always felt like I got the short end of the stick in my own family and I'm really protective of myself and my needs when I feel like it's happening again.
I have essentially had to learn how to parent myself because many of my needs weren't met when I was growing up.
I can see where the current situation would trigger those feelings in you again.
There is a little girl inside of me who is scared, lonely, and feels "less than". I work hard to love that little girl and take good care of her.
Be gentle with yourself!