Originally Posted by
lizzvoltage 
Help. I don't know how to cope. I'm not even sure I deserve this, whatever that means. He is sober but he goes from loving to incredibly distant and I have fears that he is going to leave me. We've been through this before. I don't know what to do. I need help.
Lizz -
I think everyone goes through this at some time. Relationships can be very confusing. His distance may be about you, or it may not. Everyone has their own inner world and it may be that he just needs space to think and reflect at times.
My advice is - try to focus on things in your own life. Whether he wants to be with you or not, you need to take care of yourself.
Panther