I left after 36 years of marriage. It was hard and scary and oh so worth it. I had new drama initially handling everything on my own from shopping to laundry to bill paying. Been at it almost 3 months now and its not a big deal. I'm juggling a schedule with a full time job, boxing 3 times a week, al-anon twice a week and all the other chores that need to be done. Boredom is not something I am worried about.
One question, are you going to al-anon? If not I strongly suggest it. They gave me the tools and support I needed to start getting my life back in order again. I not only have a life again I enjoy living. No way I would have said that 3-4 months ago.
Good luck and ((((hugs)))),