Welcome shysufferer
If you've decided to 'put the house up for sale, rent a place for the kids and me, take that first step to MY new life without my AW' you must have had good reason?
I hope your wife's admission can be the start of her recovery, but don't forget
your recovery too, or your well being and that of your kids.
I hope you'll look in at our FF forums too
best wishes to you and yours
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