I am currently living with my AH husband (30 yrs). I am here for now, but haven't decided that I'll be here forever. Day in and day out, it's not that bad, but is it enough? I don't know yet.
I put a breathalzyer on the car he drives when he left the hospital after a bit of a crisis almost 4 years ago. He cannot drive my car. If he were to decide to drive while impaired somehow, that is a deal breaker for me. I would have to leave. Done.
It wouldn't be a decision so much as a fact.
It is everyone's, not just us codies, but everyone's responsibility to keep impaired people from driving.
I'm not rigid in my views about hardly anything in life, but on this one I cannot budge even an inch.
Well, look at that, I've said it twice now. That's all folks!