Thanks Giving. I'm in the rant and rave mood tonight. I just needed to vent and that's what this board is good for. I learn so much reading other posts. The long thread about hope and expectations had me close to tears a few times. It's all so true about not having any hope or expectations about your A and I find that so sad. I've given up on him and now I need to live my own life. It's the next phase that's hard.
Anyway, thanks for your nice post and thanks for your permission! LOL