Hitting rock bottom doesn't have to be something as serious as losing your home/job/spouse/fill in the blank. As I heard someone once say, "Hitting rock bottom is when you decide to stop digging". I stopped digging when I had the best job of my life, was financially secure, and in good physical health. My relationships weren't where I wanted them to be though, and I knew I could improve those, as well as the aforementioned, if I got sober.