Old 07-21-2011, 10:24 PM
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mhealer3
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 70
so true what you all say, and thank you for being here-- cause i finally know i'm not the only one.
it's impossible to explain to family members--i never even tried. hell, they're a lot of the reasons i'm so fearful in the first place.
really maims to speak terrible words over children, cause they grow up & fulfill that word without knowing how it happened. (bad marriages, addictions, can't hold a job, ect.)
i understand now how i got this way, & it helps me find my way back.
truly, not being angry at whatever person hurt u is very healing.
even though they caused u 2 think you're a loser or worthless, you can still decide to change your own mind about it see yourself the way God sees you--as precious.
it takes time to reform your thinking, but the thoughts of God are peaceful, never harmful...
so begin there, & take His Word for it-- just agree with God that you're precious & that person who ragged on you was simply wrong & nasty. Amen
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