I have been telling my kids (15 and 18) everything for years now. I came to a point in my life that it was to hard to try and hide it. Also I wanted to educate them because I think they should be aware of what this disease does to people/families. For years I educated myself about alcoholics and tried to educate my kids, but wasnt taking care of myself. I just wish I knew to educate myself on my recovery at the same time. one day at a time - honesty is the best way to live great post