Originally Posted by
Jazzman 
So Is he still living with you?
Will he come back to your home when he does get out?
It must be huge source of tension in your marriage.
Your husband must be a saint.
Do you have children at home exposed to this "male role model?"
Yes, he still lives with us, and, yes, my husband is a very kind and patient man.
We actually enjoy having my brother here most of the time. It's just the drama and turmoil his poor choices create that puts stress on everyone in our whole family, not just on the two of us.
No, no children still at home to be exposed to my brother's example.