My children and I heavily rely on the child support we receive.
If my ex stopped paying you bet I would want to see him end up in jail.
I've worked (sometimes two jobs at once) and gone back to school when my husband left so really I don't have sympathy for any dead beat dad.
Sorry if I've offended you but really that is what he is - a dead beat dad
If he didn't want to pay child support he shouldn't have had children.
And yes I do have a relative (by marriage) in jail.
He will die there.
He treated the whole family so poorly and was so unapologetic for his actions for so long that NOBODY, and I mean nobody, in a huge extended family gives a rat's ass any more.
Your brother is lucky that any of you guys will even talk to him.