Lord knows, I'm the last person who should be giving relationship advice. We men do tend to be a little more shallow when it comes to criteria for choosing a companion. It's not fair, and I can't explain it.
That being said, there are good men out there, and, with luck, you'll get the opportunity to meet one some day. In the meantime, perhaps you will find some peace without a man in your life.
You deserve to be happy.