That's a bummer there aren't more groups closer to you. I know exactly what you mean about the parents versus spouse thing! All the women I spend time with are spouses or ex-spouses of As - with children of varying ages! The people at the meeting who are parents - I have a hard time connecting/relating too.
I think you're doing great - I really do. You seemed to go silent for a while there... during which you had an amazing growth spurt! It's great to have you back