Breec3,I know where you are coming from. My AH used to get in my oldest son's face all the time and then one day while I was at my Great Aunt's funeral he beat him up. I very rarely let my oldest son (from a previous relationship) and my H stay together without me being in the room. My H had been on a binge and things were not going well for him at work that day, so when my oldest son (who lived with my Mother for this very reason) showed up at our house my H just lost it. He has also gotten in our son's face and once stared towards him with a hammer raised. I stepped between them and told my H he needed to think about what he was doing. He left and didn't come back for a couple of days. Now he says he can't remember the incident even happening. Says I am lying when it comes up.
Take care.
Kat