WTBH... I dont remember, do you go to al-anon? I have found it to be the greatest form of support ever. I go out to lunch every Friday with ladies from my home group... Their ESH outside the meeting has made a HUGE difference in my spirit and happiness. Listening to them and bouncing things off of them helps me realize how okay I am, and I'm not alone anymore. They love me more than I can even comprehend! Heck, I've only known them two months and I had two of them offer to drive me to surgery tomorrow, and letting me stay with them so they can help me change my dressings!! How freaking' cool is that?!?!
Any who... I am grateful for al-anon. It has saved my life.
Thanks,
Shannon