Originally Posted by
ChadDJC 
One last thing, I will keep you updated once I have this conversation with my gf. Thanks to your help (all of you), one of 2 things will happen:
- She will realize she has a potential problem, is still young and can get better, which at this stage should not be that hard (as long as she accepts it), and we continue dating. Whether we stay together for a while or not is irrelevant, but at least she will live a good, sober and happy life
- 4.
Chad, I had many many of these conversations with my husband in the early stages of this disease. He would listen, tell me exactly what I wanted to hear and then drink again when he thought he had been good enough to deflect my concerns. He would cry crocodile tears, express remorse and be so wonderful that I would tell myself the problem was gone. Please know she may lie to you and may say anything to get you to focus on something else.
I wish you all the best, keep posting and learning