I used to see love as an emotion. Somewhere in this journey I began to see it more as a demonstration. Love as a verb, instead of a noun
As far as love and the 3 C's go, I learned another C here; I think from cynical one: Contribute.
I didn't cause, I can't control or cure, but I can contribute to someone's issues.
When I flip it sideways: My love doesn't cause, control or cure others issues, but it can contribute. Even if it's from afar.
Just my 2 cents