I've got one more question- our plan is to stay in a hotel one more night and then maybe go back to my parents' tomorrow. My mom started treatment today; I've talked to her and my dad and they both swear she is not drinking (or taking pills for that matter). I just don't know if I can trust that that is the case. I want to be there to support her, and if she is as genuine as she says she is, then I would also like to begin the process of healing. But part of me also thinks she needs to realize what she could lose by us being away. I don't know. It's so difficult; I don't know what the right thing to do is.