Wow Dolly, you are a very strong lady and very level headed as well. You crossed that line of NO MORE and NO MORE is what you ment. Boy to only imagine the can of worms that would have opened up if you didn't stick to your guns! Your sister-in-law was probably at her whits end, we all know how are minds can go in every direction when our addicted loved ones are in distress. Glad she was understanding.