Hi Transform, thanks for sharing your story with me. It really tore down my self esteem to hear all of the negative stuff my XBF dished out to me. I also wondered if he was cheating on me or leaving me for someone else because, as he was breaking up with me, he started talking about how he envisions his future dating life: he wants to date, but never live with someone again, he just wants to have a good time, etc. So there I am, getting dumped AND I'm having to listen to the man I just was intimate with not 24 hours before, telling me about his future dating plans. Ouch!