Thank you all. Sark, your just what I was hoping for. The loss of a spouse is one of the toughest things to deal with. Please, lets stay in touch. Maybe we can help each other. I'm also sorry to hear of anyone else going through this. The pain simply can't be described. All the AA platitudes and the higher power concepts seem to just go out the window. I don't think there is a sobriety group anywhere that can prepare us for this.
My sincere condolences,
Ron
PS. Are as sick as I am of hearing "If there's anything I can do"