Ah geez. The XABF just texted me to "see how I'm doing". I'm going to take a bubble bath and watch Mob Wives, lol! I wish the ex the best in his recovery, but I realize it's time to focus on me and my kids only now.
I have to say that I really have respect for all those in recovery who have made it through the tough times and are doing the right thing by their families and friends. And for all of us codependents who are taking care of ourselves. I just found out there is a CODA meeting right near me so I'm going to go check that out tomorrow night.
Thanks all for the support today! It has really helped me focus on my priorities.