Originally Posted by
dollydo 
However, in my mind he did you a big favor.
@dolly...you said these words PERFECT!!
love, i was once in your shoes...loved and cared for him and supported him...and I was in AL ANON..the thing is with me is i stopped ENABLING my behaviour...yes it turned for the worst, he was at the time in his beginnings of his recovery (and i pray he still is)
my A(&NA) left me, he left a DR JOHN letter and said to me, "i know i am a very sick man, its all me, not you, and i do not want to bring you down with my sh!t." and left....that was last June
and i thank him now...there has been no contact
i wish him well
~Maggie