Great Thread! I'm working on living in the moment and not trying to predict the future with my AH. He says he can drink occasionally ,and that he's not an alcoholic. I'm wanting recovery for him, but he's not wanting it for himself. Trying to have no expectations of him or others, but stay true to myself in what I'm wanting for me. Also, working on setting boundaries, especially with him and our daughter, who is a single mom. Realizing that calm, peaceful, positive people are the people I want to have relationships with and not worrying about letting friends go who are angry, sarcastic, or judgmental. Trying to listen to my HP and what the plan is for my life.