Dollydo:
I am sorry that you are going through that. This is the only reason that I am afraid to call my exabf's family. I miss them and became friends with them over the five and a half years but I fear that talking to them will get me back into his web.
Good for you for holding your ground and doing what is right for you. Its not your problem to deal with. I love your strength and your reaction to this situation.
Big hugs,