Cynical one: When I asked my AH to leave I wasnt prepared financially and with the kids. I did it out of anger and wasnt thinking about how I was to survive. I am preparing for whatever may come now.
I think most of yall misunderstood my post. I am not ok with the choices my AH has been making. And I will not allow him to stay in the home like this. I know me and the kids are being affected by his addiction. And I know that cant and wont continue. But I am not prepared to leave. there are things that have to get done first in order to protect me and the kids. And while I am preparing i hope he changes. thats all.