Originally Posted by
angie4 
I asked him what he was doing and he said he was coming home. We were married and this was his family. And we were going to work it out. Period. Honestly, I was glad he did that. That stregenth, take control man is who I feel in love with. I have missed that guy. I knew he hadnt changed, in more ways than one. First, that guy I loved was still there (the one who loves his family and is the leader of our family) is somewhere deep inside him.
"Take Control Man" is the same man who stole your child's X-box and anything else not nailed down. This is the guys who deals dope to sustain his habit. Thisis the guy who takes your last $2.
The drugs control him. He has no reason to consider changing anything cause he has not experienced any consequences. Heck, he likely still envisions himself as in control even when he's shooting dope.
Turning over control to someone who is not in control of himself/herself seems a tad bit convenient because it avoids taking responsibility for ones self.