Welcome maningup...I'm not sure what sleeping with a married woman has to do with successful sobriety anyway...choices are made prices are paid.
I have a younger spirit and no where near look my real years either but I am nowhere near ready to even 'look' at another person muchless get into a relationship. One guy in my rehab asked me out but I rejected him for my sobriety. I need that more than a relationship right now. I have become very spiritual and no longer feel the need to fufill any voids with meaningless baggage. I feel that by you concentrating more on what you really want from this journey and applying it to your daily living you can be successful and stay on the right track. There are alot of distractions in life and I have learned to decipher which is beneficial and which is just blah blah blah -for a lack of better words. LOL I wish you great success this time...stay on course, work the program everyday...read something, stay here -but please don't drink.