Gosh-thanks for all the replies, what I scares me to death but I know you are right. I think the time is coming Yes, he pays most of his bills (exception health insurance). Just got a text, said he WOULD not be yelled at again-EVER. Told him it would most likely inevitable, so he might need to start making other plans.
I get caught up in when he is good, he is good. He is hanging out with a really nice girl, he just ignores our feelings and the pain, anger, frustration of his lack of responsibility just fester until he has a moment to "talk" and then he sets the conditions or gets confrontational. I think his Dad is going to have a stroke or they are going to get physical.
My son is out for himself...he says survival. He works, but then he goes to this girl's house and he doesn't take time to sit and deal with the family issues. He never has when I look back.
