The oddest thing happened to me.....the man I found so interesting and attractive for the last 5 years of my drinking...no longer apealed to me in recovery.
Yes he supported my AA efforts...no longer brought alcohol in my apartment however....our goals no longer meshed....we slowly stopped being a couple
The end came when I was about 1 year sober...I was living a lifestyle ..he was not interested in following.
He survived....I've thrived and have warm memories of our time together....