THIS is why I live alone. And why I'm not looking.
Up until my last relationship ended (guy was not even a drinker, but very manipulative, brought a lot of bad mojo into my life), I was one of those people who HAD to have a relationship. At all times. One ended, on to shopping for the next.
Until I am at peace with me (something I'm working on), I have no business complicating things by bringing someone else in. It is a distraction, at best.