Originally Posted by
yeahgr8 
I find it very ironic that i would not put up with a partner who was in active addiction even though many partners of mine did...maybe it's because i know how futile it is and was to be involved in any way shape or form with the addict/alcoholic all the while they have little or no intention of getting help to recover?
I find this interesting. I don't think my RAH would have stayed with me had the shoe been on the other foot. As a matter of fact, his girlfriend before me got the boot because she was a Democrat (no offense intended to Democrats). So I can't imagine he'd tolerate an addict/alcoholic.