Ohh my mom and I also feel many things are going on all the same time, in fast forward....
Sending you hugs and BTW thanks for your support in a recent thread of mine, I have followed your advice and I am grateful !! today I enjoyed my day very much and felt in a better mood... helped that I spent some time away and alone to realize that the negativity I felt is not mine...
Hugs and keep moving forward... you can't cure her, its great you are taking steps to protect your peace and your sanity, those two are priceless.