I didn't read the article at all, but I figured it was another one of those people who had to find something to blame without looking deep within themselves.
I know that the demise of my relationship was not solely resting inside a bottle. I had a part in that. I'm dealing with that part. I'm not beating myself up about it or making it all my fault, for sure, but I am facing the parts of me that contributed to the unhealthy cycle in which we lived.
The growing process has some pains sometimes, but it's worth it so far. Part of the author's growth process could have been to brainstorm some thoughts and feelings, and she might as well sell copy while she's at it, right?
Whatever she said, that's up to her. I'm sure there's more for all of us to learn as we grow.