Old 06-30-2011, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by BobbyJ View Post
Just wondering, how some of you handle relapse?

Some of you accept relapse with your A and move on with
your everyday life, like it never even happened

Some of you break down and struggle when they do it again
and you hold your breath & wait for the next one

Some of you are like me, and with one relapse, IM DONE,
like burnt toast....Divorced & kicked to the curb done!!

Where do you draw the line of what is acceptable & what is not
when it comes to relapse?

How come I could only handle one and the next person can handle
5???? .......just thinking......
Hey BobbyJ ..... you're thread sort of got hijacked here. Sorry about that!
I hope you're having a great day!

How to handle your A's relapse(s)?
One day at a time
Prayer
Alanon
Breathe
Vent
and maybe one day, get to the point that you don't accept it at all ....
and maybe one day, he'll get it and stay on the wagon ...

good luck to you!
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