I was wondering the same thing as cynical one. If this is the guy who kept texting that "he was not a homewrecker", and calling her "sweetie", I'd definitely say no. If it is a totally different man, then I'd be wondering, why is my wife developing close relationships with ONLY the needy men while in treatment? I don't like the situation either. Your family does not need to be his outlet for his grief over the loss of his daughter.