My husband has been home from rehab for almost 2 weeks. Well he insisted on staying with his parents for awhile before he comes home. He promised a lot last weekend and never showed up to cut the grass or anything. He came by last night after i told him that i was trying to stay really positive about us living apart right now while he works on his recovery and i also work on mine. I just needed something ever now and then to go on. Things got heated and well
. That was something i really wanted but a kiss or holding my hand on the couch would have been fine. Later in the evening he says he is upset with his self for letting that happen. He had told himself he was going to wait until he came home. He said it was nothing I did, he was dissappointed in himself. So my question is...in rehab do they tell them to stay distant from their wife? I have read that recovery is very hard and the first 90 days is the hardest.