Welcome to SR Jennie,
Being self employed myself in my 20's really opens the days for plenty of abuse. Can remember actually envying some friends who had to hold off for work (and paychecks)
You'll find plenty of rational thinkers around. diverse and vibrant bunch indeed !?!
One secular idea that works for me is: "don't drink, no matter what "
.....and keep reaching for progressive ideals.
This place has helped so, soooo much the past 14 months.
Even though I'm a Secular Humanist, IMHO I really think recovery trumps world-views
.....[ for those needing (wanting) it]
...again, welcome
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BTW, ....nice screen name