I live with boyfriend who now drinks occassionally...we were big drinkers together and when I stopped drinking and was in recovery he pretty much stopped...although on occassion he will "let loose" I came to realize that I can't control his drinking....and I really found peace knowing I can only control what I do....in saying that I would just suggest doing what you feel is right for you...I personally would find it hard..to stay..my sobriety is the most important thing to me....life and death really....and I just wouldn't jepordize it... best wishes to you.....