I don't know if this will help or not but I no longer have any expectations of anyone but myself.
I expect myself to get up everyday and go to work, feed my family and take care of myself. Those are my only expectations. The rest I give to God.
I only hope for the best for myself and my children.
I have no hopes or expectations of my AH. He will be celebrating 1 year of sobriety on September 1st of this year. I am so proud of him for working the program and improving himself.
I have no expectations of him whatsoever and I have no hopes for him. He is responsible for himself and our children, just as I am responsible for myself and our children.
The rest just seems to fall into place. We live a clean fun life and for that I am happy and Thank God everyday.