Thank u. No im not going to alanon but i am deeply considering it. The hardest part is I grew up with my parents being drug users and i saw them get through it so I have faith in him. He actually started going to na meetings yesterday and I really hope they help. I'm going to definitely look into the other forum. This is something I need to keep talking about through the entire process and its hard to talk to friendsand family because i don't want them to judge him or I. I just pray he can get through this because when not using he really is an amazing person!