Hey Disappointed. Know where you are coming from. It is 25 years for me. Only my AH left me and our kids recently to "take up" with his best friends wife. As bad as my pain and disappointment was when he was here and drunk, the pain of this right now is worse. At least that I had enough experience to deal with.
Take care. This is a great place to find people who understand what is going on.
Kat