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Old 06-22-2011, 09:54 AM
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In my opinion I guess it would depend on the situation and the person you are going NC with. My ex-husband was such a piece of excrement I had no problem not informing him of my choice to go NC.

If it ever comes to the point where I want to leave the ABF, well, I would tell him, because he's never been abusive to me. He treats me 180% better than my ex-husband ever did despite his alcoholism, so for that I feel I would owe him at least a reason why.
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