(((Mary)))
Please know that I admire your bravery, your courage and your strength ~ You are giving your AH a great gift of dignity and respect and choice ~ althought he may not use that gift to benefit himself - You can know that without a doubt YOU did the most loving thing you could do!
I had a conversation with my step-daughter this week about my exah - she said "Ma it's hard to just watch him slowly die - i just can't see him that often" I told her i completely understood, but that it was ok for her to take care of Herself too!
PINK HUGS to you my friend!
Rita