Originally Posted by
angie4 
Isnt it funny how now that he is doing what I always wanted him to do I am worse than ever. And I know it confuses and angers him and tests his will. Its like I am pushing him to use again just beacuse I think he will. Has it ended up that I am the one that isnt good for him? Will I be his reason for relapse? Holy moly I have lost it.
Absolutely nothing you can say or do can keep him sober or cause a relapse. You are not that powerful. None of us are. It's an ego thing common in codependency.