Can you tell him you need some quiet time? Maybe take a nice warm shower or a walk around the block? I can relate to how you're feeling... I know when I come home and the house is chaos between barking dogs, loud TV and banging pots and pans all I want to do is just turn right back around, shut the door and get back in the car!
I usually settle with some semi-quiet time in the bedroom with the door shut, just until I decompress a little.