May I ask you a question?
Playing the waiting out game? the stuck in limbo game?
How's that working for you?
do you think even if he files he won't play out the martyr role?
I understand that you really wanted the marriage you were promised - Please accept my heartfelt sympathy that you didn't get that promise!! ((hugs)) for you - that really hurts.
I believe now that you have the opportunity to try something else - it may not be what you originally wanted or had planned for ~ but it may be something else your HP has in store for you ~
When you are ready - don't let the little detail of who filed or who won stop you ~
Remember as long as you come out with your Joy, Peace, Sanity, Serenity and ability to Live and Laugh ~ my friend YOU have WON! regardless of what he thinks or stories he tells!!
PINK HUGS!
Rita