I,too, am fairly new to the Forum, and have carried around (on and off) anger and resentment.... I find that the advice given in the other replies is great advice, and it is so true that all you can do is your best. The biggest, strongest thing I do is to detach and be sure to take care of myself first.That seems to keep me positive and keep me moving forward. Nothing others do is because of us, they do what they know, and we have to remind ourselves NOT to take any of it personally. I am grateful each day that I wake up healthy and breathing and I thank GOD each day for giving me strength and for leading me to this program of recovery. Peace and Faith to all of you,
J